I think I need someone who makes me feel small.

(Not just in the sense that as a 166cm tall Asian girl, that makes me awkwardly as tall/taller than 60% of the guys I meet.  It always takes them by surprise when I go from sitting to standing >_>)

My entire life, I've fought to become as independent as possible - I'm fine with doing things myself, and I'm good at being by myself.  I can keep a cool head and take care of what needs to be done.  I'm constantly striving to "get it together" and with each year, I come a bit closer.  The worst thing I would hate to be is a "stupid woman" who can't understand the world or learn anything new.

Inevitably though, there will still be moments when I can't do everything, no matter how powerful I think I've become.  In the end, I'm still a woman who is soft on the inside.  If I can find someone who doesn't make me submit, who doesn't want a needy woman to feed his ego... someone who it's safe to rely on without a feeling of debt afterwards.  Someone who knows how to take care of me in a gentle, leading way.  Someone who needs me too.  Someone who actually believes that I'm strong.