Big Docs

Random things people say can resonate and stick with you for a long time, especially if those people are those you really respect, and are where you professionally want to be far into the future.

- On death:  "Each patient's life is ultimately in God's hands.  I am simply given the opportunity to help as I can, and I can have peace with that."

- On listening:  "A patient's story can help solve the puzzle at the very last minute."

- On studying:  "I'm not very smart, I just worked very hard.  My motto was, Every day is exam day."

- On this path:  "Don't ever let anyone make you feel lesser for doing osteopathic medicine.  All my DO colleagues are excellent.  You're in a rare position to change people's lives, and that's the best reward."

- On medical school:  "Your health comes first.  Stress can kill you - literally.  I had a classmate who took pills to help him study, and one day he just didn't wake up.  There's no time for a relationship.  Throughout med school, I wore a wedding ring.  Said I already had two kids.  All the girls came to me with boyfriend problems - I became their counselor!  My (now) wife was the only one who found out I was lying, so she got me."


'Once you meet someone, you never really forget them.'


"Spirited Away" came out in 2001, the same year that I settled in the US, left my best friend, a time when I had to adapt to everything, when I had no idea where life was heading.  Hayao Miyazaki apparently dedicated the movie to 10 year olds - the exact age I was back in 2001.  It's always been my absolute favorite Ghibli film (even before I learned of this coincidence) because of the way Chihiro works her way through the maze no matter how frightening or confusing it is.  She's stubborn and grumpy, but keeps her integrity and learns how to cherish those around her - the exact same lessons I am still learning.  And at the end, when she leaves Haku behind, she has absolute freedom to continue living for the better.

I'd like to think that certain things find you when you're ready for them at the right times in life.